Practical tips to support your child's practice at home (1)

The last couple of posts have discussed the vital role parents play in supporting their child at home by negotiating a practice time and making sure it's stuck to.  For the next few posts we turn to practical strategies to help once you're at the piano. 

Make it a special time
In today's hectic world 1:1 time with your child is rare, so why not make practice time a special time when it's just the two of you and you can treasure the time spent together.  Put the phone and other distractions away, make sure siblings are occupied elsewhere, shut the dog out and really be present with your child. 

Along with Oprah and many others, Dr Christopher Fisher (father of two small pianists, piano teacher and academic) says your presence is one of the best rewards you can give your child.  Let your child know how special they are.  Remember, unless you tell them this they won't know it. Dr Fisher also suggests mentioning at random times (outside of practice) how proud you were of something they did in practice, it will light them up and motivate them.  ​

your presence is one of the best rewards you can give your child

Make it fun
A Suzuki teacher said that parenting is about paying loving, playful attention rather than education.  Practice needs to be filled with fun, laughter, fun and games.  Did you know it takes 400 repetitions to create a new synapse in the brain, unless it's done playfully and then it only takes 10-20 - WOW!

The power of praise & constructive feedback
You already know this, but children crave parents' affirmation but it needs to be:

• honest
• specific
• about hard work

So ask questions - how could you make that better?  I wonder what that would sound like if you played it faster / higher / lower / etc.
Say 'I can see how fast you are progressing using that strategy'
Say 'I loved the sound you created just there'....and so on.  

I hope this has given you some ideas for practical ways to support your child.  There will be more next time!